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Palimax Sceleris
05-17-2005, 06:47 PM
Ok, so, I've got a question.
NOT WORK SAFE LINK
http://adult.dvdempire.com/Exec/v1_item.asp?userid=99364184560522&item_id=676903&tab=5#topoftabs
NOT WORK SAFE LINK
The link above is to the movie page for an adult film starring Belladonna - an Evil Angel contract girl, and one of the "kinkier" women working in blue movies today. In this film, Belladonna is clearly *very* pregnant. And, to be honest, despite how much ultra-kinky hot-girl-girl action there is in the film, I'm not sure if I find it ultra-erotic that she's pregnant, or if I find it repulsive. Note. This is no mommy-baby-preggo movie. It's not full of suckling and lactation. It's just hardcore girl-girl-toy-rough-sex stuff, but Belladonna is pregnant.
Sexy, or disgusting?
Nydia Ywalmoriel
05-17-2005, 07:11 PM
Hrm, personally, all those curves can be sexy, and pregnant women are lit up from all those hormones and smell oh-so-nice and many get really turned on during the second trimester especially... but taken totally out of context this is a little... disturbing :). Put me firmly in the 'confused' camp...
Regards,
Nydia
faervas
05-17-2005, 07:21 PM
Note. This is no mommy-baby-preggo movie. It's not full of suckling and lactation. It's just hardcore girl-girl-toy-rough-sex stuff, but Belladonna is pregnant.
Sexy, or disgusting?
Eh what sexy is is what's in the mine. No defacto standard on that's sexy. In many cases what someone find sexy can disgusting and turn off another. Do I find it sexy or disgusting? shrug
Palimax Sceleris
05-17-2005, 11:14 PM
Disgusting is leading the early voting 7-to-2, but the level of confusion is fairly high :)
I don't feel like a complete sicko. [Despite being one...]
Roliel
05-17-2005, 11:32 PM
And, to be honest, despite how much ultra-kinky hot-girl-girl action there is in the film, I'm not sure if I find it ultra-erotic that she's pregnant, or if I find it repulsive.
Both! According to the Laws of Sexual Deviance, eroticism is commensurate with repulsion!
Taleren Bloodsong
05-17-2005, 11:44 PM
i may be disgusting but i think its sexy. i loved how my wife looked carrying our child, i found it a huge turn on
Selwen Soulgazer
05-18-2005, 06:13 AM
agreed Taleran. When my girlfriend was pregnant it was sexy. However, I dont;t want to see it in my Porn or at the strip club. Its just wrong then.
Nydia Ywalmoriel
05-18-2005, 04:56 PM
I just wanted to say thanks to Taleren and Selwen for having the guts to post candidly on this topic from the perspective of pregnant partners, <3 to you both :). While I won't go so far as to say that pregnant porn is 'wrong', it seems to me that pregnancy is just such an intense state of intimacy, (and ideally, representative of the degree of love and committment between two people), that while there's no doubt that pregnant sex can be hot sex, depicting pregnant people involved in random sex acts onscreen with no context really feels creepy to me. If the video involved the actual folks involved in creating the new person (straight or lesbian couple), and had some context, I'd probably be a lot more accepting of it. Then again, given the history of this adult actress (to quote my partner: 'She's a gamer, she's a freak, she'll do anything'), perhaps this was something she wanted to do to push her own envelope and/or make a statement about pregnant sexuality...
Regards,
Nydia
Rybit
05-18-2005, 05:24 PM
I've always wondered, do the ladies find guy on guy sex sexy? (since males are generalized to have a liking for lesbian sex)
velvetsilence
05-18-2005, 06:14 PM
The general answer Rybit is a resounding NO!
Nydia Ywalmoriel
05-18-2005, 06:17 PM
Dear Rybit:
From what I've heard, that seems to vary widely; some enjoy it, while some are repulsed. I personally find man on man sex very sexy because there's often so much intensity there, while my male partner can't even look at it. This topic, btw, frequently came up at BiNet meetings; the women would often complain that their female/female relationships were overly eroticized by straight guys and ultimately trivialized, while the bi guys complained that their male and female partners both were often grossed out by the prospect of their having relations with the other sex.
I had a bi male PhD physicist friend who had a wife and usually one boyfriend at any given time; she wasn't interested in being a third party in that relationship per se, but really liked watching two guys going at it. I think it's a lot more variable in women than in men (the attraction to the other sex doing same-sex nasty), but it's interesting to note that despite the stereotype, not *all* men are turned on by lesbian sex, several of the guys in the group said it did nothing for them...
Btw, I'm not much on anime, but isn't there a school of japanese anime that deals with young homosexual guys? Called yaoi or some such?
Regards,
Nydia
P.S. And if anyone is interested, there is a superb documentary about gay men (specifically Black gay men) that contains highly erotic, as well as highly touching, moments, and is personal rather than preachy; I highly recommend Tongues Untied by the late Marlon Riggs (not porn, but really humanizes gay male love and struggle to come to terms with identity).
(Edit: Btw, why was this discussion automatically sandboxed? The discussion has been both civil and interesting. Could we get this moved to RL perhaps?)
Sumamael
05-18-2005, 06:29 PM
I voted disgusting but not because the pregnant part but because of those chicks' faces...I mean repulsive...to me at least...
I guess paper bag on the head solves lot of those issues but still....
Palimax Sceleris
05-18-2005, 07:17 PM
(Edit: Btw, why was this discussion automatically sandboxed? The discussion has been both civil and interesting. Could we get this moved to RL perhaps?)Wasn't an act of moderation. I started by placing it in Sandbox.
I figured hardcore pornography could start there :)
Gandaar
05-18-2005, 07:29 PM
I found the concept/idea of pregnant porn to be repulsive. I have to agree with Nydia... the intimacy of motherhood (in my moral opinion) should not be exploited and used in that manner.
When my wife was pregnant with my girls, I also found her to be very sexy, very desirable and was very much in love with her. The fact that she was pregnant did not slow us down much, until it became physically uncomfortable for her.
I think my personal aversion to this kind of porn would be because this is one of those lines that we should not cross. Perhaps it's just because of my upbringing and background.
Rybit
05-18-2005, 09:00 PM
Thanks, Nydia, for your response. I ask because there seems to be a huge female following for yaoi (or shounen-ai, 少年愛 ).
Palimax Sceleris
05-18-2005, 09:02 PM
A few comments.
First, Gandaar, not to make myself feel better for liking this, but the movie (I've seen it) isn't "pregnant porn." It's a hardcorn porno, but Belladonna's pregnancy is incidental. No lactation, no mama or baby talk, etc. She just *happens* be be pregnant. The film features a speculum, but it only goes in Melissa Lauren. I think I wouldn't be so "inbetween" on a movie that was pregspoitation :)
Sumamuel, interesting. I think (photos at bottom) that Belladonna is hot. I also think the final scene with her and Melissa Lauren is ultra-kinky (even relative to the film in general), and that Melissa Lauren is an amazing babe.
Finally, to Nydia - there's an obvious cultural double-standard with boy-boy gay sex over girl-girl gay sex. With hetero men, I'd say a very high percentage think girl-girl sex is at least "fun" to watch, and very few are grossed out by it. In the same vein, however, most hetero men I know (myself included) think boy-boy sex is repulsive. I think, with women (at least the ones I've talked to, known, been with) the gap isn't quite so wide. Lesbianism is much more socially accepted (chic, almost), and male gay sex moreso too. I guess I've just known more women that think boy-boy sex it hot than I have men. I've been in several group situations, and it's almost exclusively been straight men and straight or bisexual (or, at least Kinsey-pi women *wink*) women. Few of the male "swinging" types that I know have had any interest in cock. Obviously that's a biased sample, as I only involve myself in situations where it's straight men and straight/bi women -- but still, women seem much more accepting of it than men -- but still a small percentage.
If men are 10-90 inclined to it, women are probably only 20-80.
Palimax Sceleris
05-18-2005, 09:18 PM
And, while this is in the sandbox, and while I'm discussing who's "hot" in porn, my two favorites are currently Jezebelle Bond and Cassidey.
Jezebelle only recently started doing guys in her films, previously only being available in FF action. Despite removing her piercings, I think the change to doing MF action in quite the improvement. I caught her recently in Gob Swappers. A film I can highly recommend if "swapping" is your thing.
Cassidey, despite one misplaced tattoo, remains one of the most stunning women I've ever seen.
Oh, and a quick note about one more performer I'm fond of. Haley Paige. Hot, young, does nearly anything with ENTHUSIASM. NSFW LINK: http://www.ladirectmodels.com/haleypage.htm
Gandaar
05-18-2005, 09:37 PM
First, Gandaar, not to make myself feel better for liking this, but the movie (I've seen it) isn't "pregnant porn." It's a hardcorn porno, but Belladonna's pregnancy is incidental. No lactation, no mama or baby talk, etc.
Thanks for clearing that up Palimax. As long as the pregnancy is incidental... <shrug>... then I have no problem with it. I believe that the intimacy of motherhood should be preserved andnot exploited.
Palimax Sceleris
05-18-2005, 09:55 PM
Well, let me be clear. She's 7mo or so on the boxcover in high-gloss color. People are going to buy this film because they like her pregnant - undoubtedly, but when I got it, I had no idea (download), and it was never a factor in the "action."
So, yes, some people are out there stroking themselves to a clearly pregnant Belladonna JUST because she's pregnant.
Blyst
05-18-2005, 10:16 PM
So, yes, some people are out there stroking themselves to a clearly pregnant Belladonna JUST because she's pregnant.
Haha, that's disgusting. I can understand being attracted to your pregnant wife, but jerking off to pregnant women in porno... To me, that is pretty gross.
Sumamael
05-18-2005, 10:22 PM
Sumamuel, interesting. I think (photos at bottom) that Belladonna is hot. I also think the final scene with her and Melissa Lauren is ultra-kinky (even relative to the film in general), and that Melissa Lauren is an amazing babe.
Different tastes I guess! ;)
Osgiliath666
05-18-2005, 11:05 PM
Nasty. The preg female form is NOT attractive no matter what mircle the birth is. IMHO.
Taleren Bloodsong
05-18-2005, 11:37 PM
if you ever get married, and your wife gets pregnant, tell her how nasty you think she looks. That'll go over really well. Make sure you wait til about the 6th month, you might just wake up with no penis or not wake up at all.
Palimax Sceleris
05-18-2005, 11:53 PM
if you ever get married, and your wife gets pregnant, tell her how nasty you think she looks. That'll go over really well. Make sure you wait til about the 6th month, you might just wake up with no penis or not wake up at all.I can't think of a single father I know that wasn't having sex with his baby momma during those months where you can't accidentally get MORE pregnant :)
Osgiliath666
05-19-2005, 06:19 PM
if you ever get married, and your wife gets pregnant, tell her how nasty you think she looks. That'll go over really well. Make sure you wait til about the 6th month, you might just wake up with no penis or not wake up at all.
Been there done that... We were "active" until the 5th month or so.. All is well because even the misses agrees with me. It's a wonderful miracle that just does not look so great. Wife did not mind. she understood what was happening and that she would be able to regain her former stature. And she did! So there! I never called my wife any names(I value my life).
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