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Haloface
01-15-2005, 05:58 AM
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/4175905.stm

- What do you think?
I'm slightly torn. On the one hand, I used to get a right smacking every now and then when I was a kid, and, to paraphrase my nan, "it's never done me any harm". And to quote my father, "the world is turning upside down" (though that is the same man who's been known to call the Koran a 'terrorist's handbook').
In terms of the law, there's no doubt about the floodgates opening up, as if the courts weren't such a tedious and inefficient process already. Not to mention the subject bringing the case to trial, but also to prove that the bruise was gained through malice.. just seems like a legal mess.

Yet on the other hand, with an increase in child abuse and so much red tape around being able to bring abusive parents to justice, this seems like a god-send.

Wow, I really am torn.

Bylimet Spiritwalker
01-15-2005, 03:02 PM
I am a firm believer in a smack on the rear end having a healthy effect in terms of negative behavior = negative consequence. Fortunately, I never had to smack my son, who is now 20 and has never given me reason to be that upset with him.

I know I was abused by my father (belts, coat hangars, etc) and never could have cared less if he was happy with me or not. My grandfather on the other hand, could do more with a couple words to alter my behavior than dad and a beating ever could.

I think moderation is the key, and rather than taking an either/or stance of you can absolutely never smack your kid vs. do as you please, I would like to see parents allowed to have more input on how they will raise their children instead of government making all the decisions.

hmmmm, that got a bit long.....:p

Nunnwen
01-15-2005, 07:25 PM
I beat him so bylimet dont have to haha.

Nunnwen

Bylimet Spiritwalker
01-15-2005, 08:18 PM
/wave Nunnwen

Call Deezel, Nunn :p

ThePerfectFlaw
01-16-2005, 01:33 AM
Spare the rod, spoil the child.

woodicus
01-17-2005, 02:01 PM
Nunn.....



IIRC, he gave you the beat down you deserved.

And heya !

Nunnwen
01-18-2005, 05:39 PM
He's the one that got the heavy as heck pillow to the nuts so i think i won that fight. hahaha

woodicus
01-19-2005, 10:34 AM
Hmm, well i guess I canot argue with that.

Was still a good time though. We started to go to bed at what 5am? and it took like 3 hours to stop beating the crap out of each other.....

Ahh the good ole days.

Cados Evilsbane
01-19-2005, 01:06 PM
LoL, 'smacking' is such a funny word for this in context.. I'll take a 'spanking' any day =).