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Silentcerri
11-22-2007, 11:56 PM
Starting last year I took over the family tradition of taking in a couple basic trainees or in this year’s case 35 from Lackland AFB for Thanksgiving dinner. Today was an interesting day to say the least. The young men and women that came over today were very thankful to be serving in the military and to finally have a good home cooked meal. They were glad to be able to play ps3, wii, and xbox. We had a mini guitar hero contest and I hate to say that 2 girls rocked their faces off more than all the guys, but we all agree that my 9 year old and 6 year old cousins were the most entertaining. They watched football and sat around talking to my family members it was like i had 35 extra brothers and sisters.

I thought it was really touching when my father and my 2 uncles who were Vietnam era and Iraq 1 veterans and all Air Force vets sat around talking to these young Airmen/women. My grandma joined in the discussion telling stories of my grandpa's exploits in WW2 and beyond and then showed them his Dress Uniform and a certificate showing he was a Charter Member of the Air Force. They had so many questions and my family decided that nothing would be taboo. They talked about their disabilities that they gained while in the military, their exploits, the fun, the good and the bad, and if they had to live it over they would do it again in a heartbeat.

They all asked why I a civilian, a military brat wanted to host so many. I explained that it was always tradition from as long as I could remember and I feel that this was a way I could give back to those that will be fighting for my freedom. We also talked about how everyone that was at the dinner that was not active duty or a basic trainee was in the Disabled American Veterans, and the Auxiliary. They could not believe an entire family was so devoted to serving our soldiers and their families both active and retired etc.

If you have not fixed Thanksgiving for almost 60 people it is a fun task let me tell you. I started smoking turkeys Tuesday, Fried Turkeys this morning, made dressing in 2 different houses, and am sick of peeling sweet potatoes. I was especially surprised to see 2 of the TI's of these groups come in and they helped in the kitchen and with the dishes. They even helped serve their troops and I feel it was a great bonding experience.

It was a great day and I wish to thank everyone that is serving, has served, has lost someone, and those that gave their lives for our freedom. I also have to say that I am very thankful these men and women have volunteered to do what so many would never do and it was one of the few times i had a hard time saying good bye. These guys graduate in 2 weeks and I will be there to wish them well and thank them again for serving. If you ever get the chance to host someone I say do it. It is so rewarding and it lets them know that people do care.

Kanyli
11-23-2007, 11:10 AM
Kudos to you, and that's very impressive! I completely agree that people need to show that we actually do care about those serving in the armed forces, but what a way to do it. How did a tradition like that start?

Crap, and I was complaining about cooking for six.

akipt
11-23-2007, 11:38 AM
There's more than one way to serve your country Silent.

/salute

fildien
11-23-2007, 01:04 PM
Silent --

Your story nearly brought me to tears; as Akipt said there is more than one way to serve your country. Thank you to you and your family for its' service and dedication. I got to experience Thanksgiving while in Basic Training at Ft. Jackson; it sucked beyond belief and was the first time I ever was away from home for a holiday.

This is inspiring; I'm going to see what if anything I can do in my area to help vets or active duty personnel. Thank you.

Kelraz Bladesinger
11-23-2007, 02:38 PM
Very cool SC. Glad you didn't set your house on fire with the deep frier :) My mom and step dad live in the middle of no where New Jersey so we aren't close to any military bases but we always invite all of the elderly in the town who don't have a family to come over. Think we had about 45 people at their place yesterday. No Wii contests, but everyone left and was in bed by 7:30 :)

But my question is, what deep frier do you use? We had a mishap a year ago and set our lawn furniture on fire and instead switched to the baked turkeys - but cooking 5 turkeys requires 5 ovens so they've had to use the ovens at their church and stuff. I'd love to get back to frying, its fast and tastier ... but dangerous :)

Silentcerri
11-23-2007, 04:02 PM
I have a family member that made my burners from old truck rims. He used rebar for the legs and then mounted the burner in the rim. It holds the pots very nicely. As for the oil i use the only thing a step-child of a cajun should use. HOMEMADE LARD! I have a uncle in southern Louisianna that makes cracklins and he then saves the grease that he makes and we get it a few times a year. I have a couple of burners i bought at Academy sporting goods that i take camping and what not but for those i took it to a comercial cooking store and found pots that fit snugly in the small lip of the burner. I have seen some that slip off etc and the main thing i have found is put a wind block around the pot so it does not blow the fire and grease. Also use a basket if you can find one. the turkey hanger that goes inside the turkey sometimes does not provide the best support i have found other than that make sure to fry in a open area hehe. Oh and no drinking and frying..... nothing like a drunk knocking over the pot of grease ....

Esbat
11-26-2007, 09:59 AM
I applaud your efforts.

Sixee
11-26-2007, 10:15 AM
WTG Stabb0rz!
I know that each and every one of them appriceated your efforts!

Kelraz Bladesinger
11-26-2007, 01:43 PM
Ah so you don't use a commercial turkey fryer. I'll have to keep shopping for one, because it tastes SOOO much better.

Nydia Ywalmoriel
11-26-2007, 02:03 PM
/salute SC

I'm sure those soldiers truly appreciated your efforts, your thanks, and the bit of 'home' that you all gave them on what might have been a lonely Thanksgiving otherwise.

Regards,
Nydia